The reason why entanglement is such a big deal is precisely because quanta are discrete units. In no sense does the quantum theory give succor to an ontology of total relatedness.
I'm becoming increasingly convinced that quantum, unit, and object (OOO style) are synonyms. It's been a while since I've posted on it but these thoughts are making their way into my thinking on Kant for Realist Magic (see my previous today).
I just received a gargantuan reply on quanta and Kant from my friend the philosopher and mathematician (and Romanticist!) Arkady Plotnitsky. I'm going to digest that before I post on it.